It is obvious that the women (me and my mum) are the "stronger" charactor in the family. The men are softer and mild in personality. Many a time family slipped into crisis, it is mum carried us though with her calm decision making. I inherit from my mum. Also of these, mum and i have this love hate relationship. We hold on to our stand tightly, went through countless combustion of argument. Somehow, we accept each other back again but never for long we rekindle another explosions. We love each other with our strong front and as years goes by we got drifted away from each other....
I guess we got REALLY tired being strong... we NEED LOVE, without it.. we cannot sustain anymore... Mum is power man! imagine she suffers longer than i do in this family! Mum detoriates emotionally.. me too. We breaked down.... and unknowingly we let down our strong be exposed of our weakness... we start to seek each other comfort in this case. Thank You Jesus. :) Thank God! mum and i grow closer within these few months.
Some time the best thing we can do for someone is ask for help. Being vulnerable to those you love is big part of love itself.
Discussing over msn with my brother.. i said...
"you know what.... am thinking the best present to give mum is Jesus. really."
Today is her Birthday. Happy Birthday Mum! I Love you... Hugz. We got her ice cream.
1 comment:
One can say the same about you my dear.
A tower of strength for friends and someone so 貼心,
well to me at least. :)
-MUAKS-HC.
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